Best Friends

Shannon Hale and LeUyen Pham’s graphic novel "Best Friends" offers Christian parents a relatable portrayal of the tumultuous preteen years, where core themes of friendship, popularity, and self-identity are explored. While the narrative realistically depicts the negative aspects of middle school social dynamics—including gossip, backstabbing, and peer pressure—it ultimately champions the biblical values of authenticity and standing firm against harmful influences. Shannon’s internal struggle to align with shifting social rules versus her desire to be a "good kind of popular kid who lifts others up" reflects a journey towards integrity, aligning with the Christian call to resist conformity to the world and instead be transformed by renewing one's mind (Romans 12:2). The book addresses Shannon's anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder with compassion, offering a valuable opportunity for parents to discuss mental health with their children from a faith-based perspective of empathy and seeking support. The characters' morality is presented with clear consequences; while negative behaviors like meanness and treachery are depicted, the story highlights the distress they cause and Shannon's ultimate empowerment comes from rejecting these vices and choosing her own path. This implicitly rewards virtue over vice, showing that true satisfaction comes from self-acceptance and moral courage. The worldview presented is primarily one of personal discovery within a realistic social landscape, though it is not entirely relativistic. A significant and positive transcendent element is introduced through Shannon's thoughts and actions, as she "prays for her family and home to be safe" and considers "how Jesus would want her to stand up for kids who were excluded or bullied". This subtle yet clear depiction of faith as a moral guide is respectful and can be affirmed by Christian parents, demonstrating how personal conviction can inform choices in challenging social situations. Redemption themes manifest in Shannon’s journey of self-liberation from the chains of peer pressure and the pursuit of superficial popularity. Her growth into self-acceptance and finding joy in her unique interests represents a form of personal redemption and grace, albeit not explicitly theological. Family values are present, though not deeply explored in the provided context, with a mention of Shannon's family background from a "tight Mormon community" and parental support for her education. The positive representation of Shannon's personal faith, through prayer and moral reflection rooted in Christ's teachings, provides a valuable point of discussion for Christian families on how faith can guide and strengthen young people navigating complex social environments.